Unfinished Business

Musings of a Teenaged Middle-Aged Misfit.

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A Long December Essays

A Long December

The call that never came, the goodbye that never happened, and why some family betrayals cut deeper than death itself.

Ho Phase Essays

Ho Phase

It’s not that kind of ho phase. But it is that kind of month.

Age Against the Machine Essays

Age Against the Machine

There's a big difference between getting older and getting old.

Premature Decoration Essays

Premature Decoration

The Balkan Storm, Fat Thor energy, and Why Perfect Timing is a Myth: A Thanksgiving Confession.

Two Truths and a Comic-Con Lie Essays

Two Truths and a Comic-Con Lie

Why choosing yourself feels like betrayal (and how to do it anyway).

Somewhere in Time Essays

Somewhere in Time

It only looks ridiculous from the outside.

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Dirty Work

"She got the worst of the abuse." When my husband finally said those words out loud, I felt both validated and furious. Mainly because I'd spent years denying what it really was.

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Clean Break

They came with bags of clothes reeking of neglect and a belief that "home" meant holes in walls from fists and bullets—how do you compete with dysfunction when it's all a child has ever known?

Return to Center Essays

Return to Center

After two and a half years, I have zero regets how this is ending. Meanwhile, the need for hypervigilance is finally ending, and I have no idea who I am without it.

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