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If you've ever laughed at something and thought, "I'm going to hell for that", you're gonna be just fine here.

I started this site because I thought I had a lot of unique experiences that someone might actually relate to or maybe take something from. That's either true or self-important. (Probably both.)

Here's what I believe and what most everything here comes back to: we're stronger than we think we are, and there's always something to laugh at. Even when it's dark.

Especially when it's dark.

I'm an opinionated Southern woman who's been a Midwest transplant for over a decade. I write what I know and what I see, especially the everyday absurdities. Basically, essays, rants disguised as essays, purely self-indulgent pop culture stuff, and memoirs.

I'm not a life coach (nor am I trying to be), so take everything here with a grain of salt.

Except for the memoirs, that is.

I have family no longer speaking to me because I wrote the truth. It 'set me free', as they say.

Most of this site is free. Subscribing just means that the new stuff comes right to your inbox instead of you having to remember I exist.

That's literally the whole transaction.

There's also a paid tier for the articles that get more into the 'stronger than we think we are, (and I can prove it to you)' part I mentioned.

If something here makes you feel "wait, I thought I was the only one who thought this", or made you laugh a little...well, that's why I do this. I just want witnesses.


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