Reflections & Commentary

The intersection of real life + pop culture.

Two Truths and a Comic-Con Lie

It’s hard to explain a choice that looks selfish from the outside, but was the only one I had left.

Somewhere in Time

I went to Teslacon thinking I’d just watch other people escape their lives for a weekend. I didn’t expect to understand it as much as I did.

Clean Break

Everyone keeps telling me I must be relieved. Sure. My cortisol disagrees.

Living the (Fever) Dream

I came out of the fever expecting things to be normal. They weren’t, which, all things considered, isn't surprising.

Stop Calling Alcoholism a Disease

The cycle I lived matches every description of addiction. It simply wasn’t treated like one.

The Writings on the Wall

A weekend alone made it clear that I upset people when I write the truth to try and help others. To that, as always, FU.

GenX is Not Okay Right Now

In a five-day span, Gen X lost three cultural landmarks. That’s the whole story.

Stark Contrast

So here we are, because obviously I don’t know how to not care about this.

The Grief I Deserved

I always assumed I’d be reasonable about losing a pet when the time came. Molly made sure I was wrong about that.

Sad Woman, Happy Coffee

If you ever want a crash course in humility, try dumpster-diving for a dead Keurig while your neighbor’s Ring cam records your meltdown.